Solitary play is one of the first play stages. Playing alone is a natural step in the development of children’s play behaviour for a 0-2 year old.
As children learn through play and in this stage they have not yet learnt enough from relationships to be able to play together with others.
Playing alone gives children the time they need to think, explore and create. When a child plays alone, they learn to concentrate, think for themselves, comes up with creative ideas, and regulate emotions. All of these are important things for a child to learn. Playing independently is important and normal.
Babies and toddlers (birth to around two) are in this stage. This age are very busy exploring and discovering their new world. Every new object or situation that is introduced is a new learning experience.
Solitary play should not be used to identify unsociable children. In no way are the children being ‘unsociable’ but rather they are learning through play.
Even though ‘social play’ ( playing together) develops at around the age of 3 or 4 it is important to note that solitary play does not disappear.
Solitary play’ (playing alone) is followed by ‘onlooker play’ – watching and observing others play – at around two years of age.